Should I become a foster parent so I can adopt a baby or young child?

Though foster parents have adopted the children placed under their care, it’s not necessarily the norm. Because foster care is considered to be a temporary placement, it is not a good idea to become a foster parent with the expectation that you’ll be able to adopt any child placed in your care. A foster parent is expected to work with the agency and birth parents, in the hopes that the family will be reunited. A foster parent must be objective, and must be able to let go of a child if and when it comes time for that child to leave the foster home.

Sometimes, however, children are unable to return home. Once parental rights are terminated, relatives and foster parents are given consideration for adoption. This is why there are very few young children available for adoption.

Can I adopt a child without their siblings? 

We make sure children are adopted alongside their siblings when appropriate. Children in the foster care system have already experienced a great deal of loss. They have lost their parents, their friends and families, even their homes. Often, they have also lost their school, their neighborhood, their toys and their clothes. In many cases, the only loss they haven’t experienced has been their brothers or sisters. Michigan’s policy is to act in the best interests of the children. Siblings are placed together unless there’s an important reason to separate them.

I've seen children on the internet that I'm interested in adopting. Does LAS assist families with Michigan interstate adoptions?

The interstate adoption process begins with the same first step as an in-state adoption – you must first complete an adoption Family Assessment. Whether the child is in Michigan or another state, the child’s worker must first consider families with completed Family Assessments. It is important to remember that the adoption process usually takes at least three months; if you have your heart set on a child you’ve seen on the internet or somewhere else, it’s possible that child will already be placed with a family by the time your Family Assessment is complete. Having your Family Assessment completed before you begin searching for children is important; you and your worker will decide what kind of child best fits into your family during the process.

The State of Michigan will not reimburse a private agency for services provided to a family in order to complete an interstate adoption. As a result, there are substantial fees associated with adopting a child from another state. Contact us for more information by calling (248) 663-0697.

Is a foster care license the same thing as an adoption assessment?

Foster care licenses are not the same as adoption licenses. There are similarities but these are two separate processes in Michigan. Families who have been licensed for foster care will still need to obtain a Family Assessment in order to adopt.

What is the first step in adopting a child?

The first step in the adoption process is to find an adoption agency to complete your Family Assessment. There are many private agencies available to assist you with adoption planning, so we encourage you to contact several agencies and request to attend an adoption orientation. During orientation, you will have the opportunity to meet some of the agency staff and to hear about their program and ask questions.

Questions you may wish to ask are:

• How long will the Family Assessment process take?
• Will I have to pay any adoption fees?
• How long will I wait until I am identified as an adoptive family for a child?

Be sure to choose an agency you feel comfortable with. The Family Assessment process can feel intrusive, so it is important that you trust the people you work with. Your adoption agency will become your strongest ally and advocate in this process.

Will I have to interact with my adopted child's birth family?

Adoptive parents always have the right and responsibility to determine the individuals their children see and interact with. Children awaiting adoption from the foster care system have usually been made available because of court ordered termination of parental rights. Once their rights are terminated, birth parents have no right to maintain contact with their biological child. However, contact with appropriate family members after adoption is strongly encouraged when it is in the child(s) best interest. Many of our children have siblings who have been adopted by other families or grandparents, aunts or uncles with whom they have a strong relationship. It may be important to the child’s well-being that those relationships continue.

Do I have to be married to adopt a child?

Individuals seeking to become single parents are allowed to adopt children. Many children will thrive in a single parent home. However, if you are legally married, you must adopt along with your spouse. Individuals who are separated cannot legally adopt as single parents in Michigan.

I've decided I want to adopt a child. Now what do I do?

The first step in any adoption is a Family Assessment, also known as a homestudy. Families must be approved through the Family Assessment process before a child can be placed in their home for adoption. The Family Assessment involves a series of meetings between the family and an adoption worker. Training regarding the adoption process and common issues in adoption will also be required before or during the assessment process. During the assessment, your social worker will talk with you about your motivations and expectations for adoption. It also gives the adoption worker a chance to get to know your family.

The Family Assessment process usually takes three to six months to complete, depending on factors such as worker caseload and family cooperation. Assessments are typically prioritized based on the types of children waiting and the characteristics of families who have applied. The process typically consists of a number of meetings at the home as well as personal interviews. The study generally includes the following:

• Social History - A complete history and evaluation of your current family life and past experiences -- and how they will affect your capacity to parent an adoptive child -- is written.
• Health Statements – All household members will need to provide a medical history and a recent physical (within one year).
• Criminal Background Check/Fingerprinting – Applicants will need to complete a state police check, Protective Service clearance, fingerprinting (effective 1/1/08) and a local police clearance. A state police check and Protective Service clearance will also be required for all other adults in the home.
• Income Statement – Applicants will be required to provide proof of your income, such as a copy of an income tax form, a paycheck stub, or a W-2 form.
• Personal References - You will be asked to provide the names, addresses, and phone numbers of three unrelated individuals who can share their knowledge about your experience with children, the stability of your marriage and/or household, and your motivation to adopt.

What happens once my Family Assessment is completed? How long does the adoption process take?

Once your Family Assessment is complete, the matching process is initiated. Your adoption specialist will regularly review your family assessment with the recruitment team to see if there is a possible match. The recruitment supervisor will also be informed of the characteristics of your family so that she can communicate that with other LAS offices. Once a possible match has been identified, you will be contacted by your worker. Information about the child(ren) will be presented to your family for consideration.

Because matching children with the right family is a complicated process, the length of time it will take to adopt a child cannot be accurately predicted. Some families are able to adopt children quickly while others may wait years for the right match. Once you have a completed and approved Family Assessment, you may also begin to inquire about children photolisted in the MARE (Michigan Adoption Resource Exchange) book and/or website at www.mare.org.